Discussion and reflection questions inspired by
David Ko’s Recharge
Recharge explores the reality of modern stress and burnout, offering ways to replenish your mental energy. Ko’s conversations with innovators, athletes, and artists reveal the power of checking in with ourselves and others. This guide is designed to spark discussion in book clubs, workplaces, or among friends and family. Please also use it for your own self-reflection.
Technology & Mental Health: A Double-Edged Sword
Technology connects us, but it also drains us. How can we use it without letting it deplete our energy?
- The book compares our minds to batteries, constantly charging and depleting. How does your daily phone or screen use impact your mental battery?
- Do you notice changes in your mood after an extended time online? If so, what patterns do you see?
- What’s one small change you could make to set healthier tech boundaries?
- Have you ever taken a “digital sabbath” or a social media break? What did you notice?
- Ko shares his experience as CEO of Calm. Have you used Calm or other mindfulness or digital wellness tools? Did they help?
Workplace Mental Health: Creating a Culture of Well-being
Many of us spend more time at work than anywhere else. How can we make workplaces healthier for mental well-being?
- Have you ever experienced burnout at work? What were the signs?
- Ko highlights the importance of checking in with colleagues. When was the last time you had an honest conversation about mental health at work?
- What’s one policy or practice you wish your workplace had to support mental health?
- Ko mentions that stress and mental health challenges impact company performance. How does your workplace acknowledge or address these challenges?
- If you were in charge of workplace well-being, what’s one thing you would implement immediately?
Managing Stress and Burnout: Recharging Your Battery
Ko emphasizes that we rarely check in with ourselves. How can we better manage our mental energy?
- On a scale of 1–100%, where is your battery level right now? What would help you recharge?
- What are your go-to stress relief habits? Do they truly help, or are they just distractions?
- The book discusses micro-strategies for self-care (short walks, deep breathing, social connections). Which ones work for you?
- Have you ever had a time when your battery hit 0%? What led to it, and how did you recover?
- Ko talks about the stigma of mental health, especially in high-pressure environments. Have you ever felt hesitant to admit you needed a break? Why?
The Mind-Body Connection: Listening to Ourselves
Ko explores how mental and physical health are deeply linked. How do we tune in to our bodies?
- What physical symptoms do you experience when you’re under extreme stress?
- How does exercise or movement affect your mood?
- Ko’s wife, a yoga teacher, describes the power of breathwork. Have you ever tried breathing techniques to manage stress?
- How do you feel after a good night’s sleep versus after a poor night’s sleep? How often do you prioritize sleep?
- If you could improve one daily habit to better support your mind and body, what would it be?
Difficult Conversations: Breaking the Silence
Cultural norms, family upbringing, and personal fears can keep us from discussing mental health. How do we break the silence?
- Ko describes his childhood struggles with anxiety, but at the time, he didn’t have the words to talk about it. What was your first experience with stress or anxiety, and how was it handled?
- Have you ever felt pressure to “just power through” instead of addressing your mental health?
- In his conversation with Randall Park, Ko discusses the challenges of breaking cultural barriers around mental health. Are there societal or cultural factors that shape how you talk about mental health?
- How can we better support the people in our lives who might be struggling?
- If you could change one thing about how mental health is discussed in schools, workplaces, or families, what would it be?
Taking Action: Small Steps Toward More Balance
Change starts with small steps. What can we do to make mental wellness a priority?
- What’s one habit from Recharge that you want to try in your own life?
- Who in your life could use a mental health check-in right now? How might you start that conversation?
- Ko uses the battery metaphor to help gauge emotional well-being. How could you incorporate this idea into your daily check-ins with yourself or others?
- If you had to give advice to your younger self about stress and burnout, what would you say?
- What’s one commitment you can make today to recharge your battery?
